I Love Bitchy Jones So Much

I love sex and I love kink. But sometimes I come across things that don’t sit quite right, in ways I can’t put my finger on. There are moments when I feel like “your kink is OK” doesn’t quite capture the nuances of sexuality, or when something bothers me about how the world of kink seems irrevocably tied to the world of consumer products. Costumes, equipment, jargon, seals doing tricks. And yes, plain old sexism.

Bitchy Jones articulates what I wish I could.

In my own sex life I lean towards the submissive end of the spectrum, but she makes female dominance sound incredibly sexy. And most hetero women need reminders now and then that enjoying sex and being sexy are not one and the same.

January 29, 2008. eroticism, feminism. No Comments.

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